Did you kill him afterwards? Did you make him cry?
Then there is nothing wrong with doing it before the 3rd, 9th, 0th date. It’s bad when the ”why” of you sleeping with the guy is wrong (depends on your values). For example : ”I’m gonna sleep with him because I never slept with a guy where the first name starts with a ”W” ”
Here are some tips when you know it’s OK :
1. Do you want to? If yes. Do it. If not, don’t.
2. Is the guy single? If yes. Do it. If not, then check-in with you boundaries.
3. Are you in a state you’ll remember? If not - girl, you are too drunk and drinking make people interesting. So, as a good girlfriend, I’m telling you to go home, sleep and it will be for another time.
4. Does the guy respect you? If yes, it’s a green light. If not, you can treat the guy as much as he treats you. If he just wants to use you, use him as well. It’s a win-win. If you feel like you are too emotionally attached, go away girl, this disrespectful guy won’t respect you anytime soon and don’t think you can change him.
People telling stuff like ‘‘You need to wait the 3rd date, or you need to make him wait, bla bla bla” are so wrong. There is no rule in when and how it’s a good moment to do it. When both parties are ready to go, ”hey ho, let’s go”.
Let me ask you a question :
If you’ve been waiting 25 dates, spent 1000$ and when the moment has come for the special night … results are bad. [I mean really bad, like starfish bad.] Oh well, what a waste of time! You better know from the start what you are dealing with, rather than fooling around just because a chick flick movie or a girlie magazine told you to wait the 3rd date.
Your Good Girlfriend Gigi