Is it true that girls love assholes and the nice guys are disregarded, or is that a phase girls grow out of? From my experience I've had more success being an ass.
Hi Anonymous guy!
It’s good for you if you have success, but do you like girls that like assholes? If being an ass is part of your personality, well you are having success by being yourself and that’s fine. If you are playing that game to get girls, then it’s another story.
Here are some reasons why some girls like assholes:
- They think they don’t deserve better;
- Assholes are exciting challenges;
- Bad boys tend to have lots of positive traits that come along for the ride of the badness such as good looks, confidence,creativity, humor, charisma, high energy, and good social skills— all things girls find attractive. [Source: Psychology Today]
I think your question should be : What am I looking for? If for now, your objective is to enjoy life with no string attached, I believe that being an ass (for you) gets the job done.
Each girl has her own fetish. Some like small, big, geek, romantic, douchebag or shy guy. When you’ll be looking for that special someone, the first thing to do is ”be yourself”. If you are forcing the ”asshole” act, then your relationship is all fake.
If you are just looking to fool around, there are better ways to have girls without being an ass in a respectful environment [unless the girl told you she likes assholes].
My final answer is : It’s true that some girls love assholes.
My hypothesis: Assholes get quantity. Nice guys get quality.
Your Good Girlfriend Gigi